We all have what we consider to be strengths and shortcomings—luckily, misfits have the advantage of transforming their shortcomings into creative strengths.
To be quite honest, I don’t believe in shortcomings—every personality trait we have distinguishes us from the rest of the pack—they’re only shortcomings if that’s how we look at them. More times than not, what we consider shortcomings, others find endearing, so the fact is we should too.
For example, I’m anti-social, to the point where others might consider my lifestyle to be quite dull. This used to make me feel self-conscious, because when I’d bump into friends who were busy in school, or who’d go out on weekends or on vacations, I felt like what I had to catch them up on was less than colorful. I then went on a 5-year escapade of social adventures that ultimately caused me to lose touch with who I really am… but hey, I always had something exciting to talk about! It turned out though, that what I had to say was only exciting to others, and not to me.
The truth is, I enjoy my little bubble, and it’s in this little bubble I’m able to do what I enjoy most: write. I’ve unleashed my inner nerd, and in doing so I’m able to create the life I’ve always wanted, and spend time getting to know other writers and helping them do the same.
Your shortcomings don’t have to be shortcomings—you can use them to your advantage.
Your Misfits Assignment: Compliment Your Shortcomings
Make a list of what you consider to be your shortcomings. Beside each one, consider how they can be used to benefit your creativity.
Are you “too quiet”? Consider how much more perceptive to detail you are than those who blather on endlessly—you can use being quiet as a way to readily absorb what’s around you, and use your attention to detail to better connect with your craft.
You can now take your shortcomings and make them unique qualities that help you to stand out, so when a potential freelance job comes up that you’d be perfect for, you’ll be able to apply with confidence and proof that you’re the misfit for the job.















